I came of age during the wave of feminism that hit in the late sixties and seventies. There were some cranks and extremists (you mention Dworkin) but on the whole, the revolution was great for everyone. Old school, pre-feminist masculinity was a bummer. Men were forced into as narrow a scope of masculinity as women were into a female scope. Fathers weren't beloved figures. They were feared. Masculinity was very much about separating the weak from the strong. It was a gross and tyrannical view of masculinity as much as femaleness. And forget treatment of the gender divergent---gays were for beating up, and trans was completely beyond the pale. Anybody who thinks that wave of feminism didn't make the world radically better must not have been there. But sometime toward the beginning of this century, it went off a cliff with this climate of one-upmanship. You couldn't just be a feminist--you had to be more feminist than the last generation. It stopped being about equality and started being about winning. It stopped being about women advancing to equality and started being about hating masculinity itself. This constant demonization of men, and these nonsense words and phrases meant to divide. Men weren't and aren't the enemy. We all lived in a culture together that ironically, is ironically primarily propagated at the lowest level by women, not by men. Feminism that doesn't deal realistically with the partnership of the sexes is bound to make the world a worse place, and moreover, to fail ultimately. It already is making the world a worse place, which is a tragic departure from 100 years of success.