Absolutely. The whole emphasis on appearance is mistaken. The one guy I know who probably had the most luck with women was a short, stocky, ungainly man with a ridiculous haircut. What he did have was a level of self confidence that would make a fighter pilot look bashful. Online has poisoned the world---if the so-called "incels" would just get out in the sunlight and take some chances they wouldn't be incels for long.